Name: JOY Lee
age: 24+
birthday: 03 Jan '83
loves: God, the incredibles, SleePing blah blah..
You're listening to ::: Em sẽ sống vì Em :::


Well It depends on nothing but your own attitude. Old people consider prenuptial sex an unforgivable sin, but youngsters (in VN, for example) merely regard it as a kind of trial before settling down with a certain partner. You know pretty well that in VN now there's a 'movement' of 'sống thử', which serves as a means to test compatibility in everyday life. As long as people take care of antipregnancy methods, there should be nothing wrong. No STDs, no conception, no marital bound. In case you find your current lover 'unbearable' (for example, if he doesn't brush his teeth everyday :-P), you can say goodbye and find a new one any time without having to go through official procedures. Virginity is no longer essential to most people.
All the above are objectively spoken. However, in my opinion, it's impossible to live, let alone have sex, with someone you don't love strongly enough. Just ask yourself if you do, then go on. And beware, although your man will promise you the moon when you two are in love, he may as well turn away in contempt later, saying 'If you are easy to me, why can't you be easy to other men?'
It's not the best way to protest all invirginal girls. In our modern life, there are so many men who are in sex maniac. Many little girls suffered from that situation. How can you know if your partner in your life are invirginal because she had sex with guys, or whether she was a victim of maniac man. Sometimes we can see some unexpected cases of girls who have had accidents when they are still young. So please don't accuse all of them. To me, i'm a gal. I also extremely disagree with the gals who wanna have trial living as a couple. I beg your pardon but As I see, almost vietnamese men are so selfish. They can have sexual intercouse with other girls, but they seldom accept the truth that their wives are invirginal till marriage.it's not fair! right?
Human is the only creature capable of planning for the future and foreseeing the consequences. If one doesn't know how to behave properly in a particular culture one will likely have to pay the price. For me, it is not a big problem if a girl falls in love with a boy and has sex with him. But if a girl considers having sex as much as possible as her way of life then it is a big problem. It's very common that one loses respect from others also loses self-respect. Life is so precious that we should never squander it.
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at Friday, July 30, 2004

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